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Blog: An Open Letter On Guns To My Liberal Friends

Can you accept that people with a different perspective and experience can have the same goal?

Dear Friends:

Believe it or not, I don’t love “blastin’ away” (to quote a Facebook post from one of you) more than I do my own son. I don't pride myself on being a "bad ass," as one of your friends called me. I have this crazy idea that I should be able to defend Christopher and Maribel from an intruder in the night or a mob in a riot.

President Obama disappointed me on this.  Though I did not vote for him, I truly hoped he'd use this moment of national grief to unite all sides in finding a real solution to this problem.  I thought he'd at least like the "optics" of building consensus and seeking the best input from all sides.  Instead, he opted to shove a partisan mandate down our throats.  That’s neither hopeful nor a change.

Don’t get me wrong.  The NRA was stunningly tone-deaf and equally hard-line. But they’re advocates, not the supposed leader of the whole country.  So, at the end of the day, the guns in this country will essentially be left status quo, with a relatively meaningless assault weapons ban.

If you are serious about the problem of mass shootings, isn't it logical to engage people who know about firearms? Instead, you’ve chosen to portray your  neighbors as blood-thirsty ghouls, unmoved by a parade of tiny caskets.

If you were trying to end drunk driving in this country, would you align as many teetotalers as you could find, then shun the bar owners, brewers and drinking public to the corners?  Of course not.

Yet, when you guys talk about guns, you talk about "clips" and "machine guns," making it obvious to us that you’re clueless and emotional.  And then you want me to trust you with my family's protection?

I’ve qualified on POST and STRAC standards, shooting rings, pop-ups and ALT-C.  I’ve shot everything from .22LRs to the M2 and Barrett.  I’ve been on CQB and KD ranges.  I’ve used iron, CCO and ACOG on deployment, and Leupolds at a school.  I’ve gone both hot and black in real fire fights. I’ve fired bolt action, semi-auto, burst and automatic.

And I’m guessing few of you know what any of those terms mean. Yet you want to dictate gun policy.

These things are relevant because those of us who know guns react in horror when clueless liberals spout terms and ideas they picked up from Rambo movies and episodes of Law & Order.  This pushes gun-owners further into defensive mode.  You may not care about us, but since roughly half of American households own guns, Congress does.

The other problem, of course, is that you’ll waste effort and create dissent in doing things that are pointless and ineffective. Take, for instance, the 100-round "drum" magazine issue.

I’ve read about these allegedly unconscionable things in a couple of places since last week, citing the Aurora theater shooter's use of one.  His also jammed after about 30 rounds.  They’re stupid toys and gun owners might well trade a ban on them for loosening counter-productive rules.  But, of course, you’d never know that.

If you want a real solution, consider some things that responsible gun owners can get behind:  Mandatory gun safes.  Trigger locks are a poor theft deterrent because they can be drilled out. Gun owners hate them because they encumber home defense when it counts.  So, why not mandate safes? Most gun owners would not be terribly bothered by it (a lot would say “I’ve been wanting to buy one, anyway”).  Here's the kicker: a safe might have prevented Sandyhook.

I’ve seen proposals for mental health reviews for gun purchases.  That’s something we’d have a very hard time supporting, because Sen. Chuck Schumer cannot be trusted.  “Question 1:  Do you need a gun for home defense?”  Answer "yes," and you’re obviously paranoid: “No gun for you!”

But, here’s a creative idea:  Have the NRA set the standards?  They absolutely would not want the PR nightmare of having an applicant it approved go nutty, so you can have great confidence the standard will be solid. That's a win-win.

Most of the gun bans that gun-know-nothings espouse will be inconvenient and an affront to liberty.  More importantly, they won't accomplish what you're Rambo-based perceptions make you think.

Both Virgina Tech (the country’s worst massacre) and Luby’s Diner (now #3 on the list) were committed with common home defense pistols and magazines generally in compliance with the proposed bans.  They were purchased in full compliance with both existing and most proposed laws.

And, while you demonize the Bushmaster .223 of Sandyhook infamy, the killer also had two pistols that would have been just as grotesquely efficient - perhaps more so.  Both would remain perfectly legal, because they are very appropriate home defense weapons.

And, somehow you guys don't seem all that bothered about the exponential growth of violent media in society. Having a conversation about guns (which have not changed in the last 25 years) while ignoring motivational influences (which have) only fuels our suspicions of ulterior motives. We don't need laws (there's a Constitutional Amendment about that), but why not a Presidential "teachable moment" about kids practicing random killing at a bodies-per-minute rate?

If you really want to solve this problem and unify the country, not just grab guns, a package of ideas like those above, combined with a loosening of concealed-carry laws and an elimination of “gun-free zones” (AKA “protection-free zones) will go a long way with gun owners. If you ask for modestly onerous measures that will truly limit whackos' access to guns and offer to let us protect ourselves (and you) in exchange, you'll quickly and easily gain consensus.

Here's a secret: loosening CCW laws is the key to gun-owners' hearts.

More importantly, it'll work. Imagine how last Friday would have been if just one staff member at the front door had reacted with a pistol, not bare hands.

You don't need pistol-packin' bad ass teachers in every classroom or patrons in every theater.  You just need to make the Adam Lanzas of the world worry about it.  

There are 300 million guns in American, most of which can do grievous harm in seconds in the wrong hands.  You'll never get rid of them. Rapid suppression by superior force is the only method of ending such a horror once it starts. 

We can solve this problem together, if you accept that people with a different perspective and experience can have the same goal.

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Buzlightyear aka marty May 24, 2013 at 01:09 pm
SGT, AND SAM, What is the common thread to all the scandals coming to light? We are beginning toRead More unravel the vast conspiracy of Obama's "election". The tea party scared the hell out of some people. They were completely maligned, and undermined by the left, with the help of main stream media. These groups and others like them, were held backed and systemically hindered. As this story is unfolding many in the media angle the story as one of how the Republicans are reacting.......and not reporting on all the illegal activity. I have never in my entire life felt such a contempt for an administration. The Tea Party, who's platform is simply "Taxed Enough Already," is rising again because of all of this. And like I have said: I AM MAD AS HELL. AND I AM NOT GOING TO TAKE IT ANYMORE! What did you expect from one who started off his political career with a kick-off party from an unrepentant terrorist!! I will not sit and take this anymore. We must fight back this collective, socialist, partisan who is the most NON-transparent evil I have seen in the Oval Office. But don't get me started.......
SgtJackWagon May 24, 2013 at 11:03 am
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Sam La Sala May 24, 2013 at 10:03 am
When is Holder going to bring indictments against the Wall Street CRIMINALS who caused theRead More financial crisis of 2008? His opinion is that they are too big to prosecute. SOURCE: PBS documentary: THE UNTOUCHABLES
SgtJackWagon May 24, 2013 at 04:53 am
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SgtJackWagon May 24, 2013 at 05:08 am
Buzlightyear, doesn't "I don't know" bring back the Democrats response to any situationRead More that they feel, might be a tad uncomfortable? Holder, what a specimen he is, and to hold the title of "Americas Top Cop." Holder needs to change his attitude, or he could be the reason for Obama's impeachment.
Buzlightyear aka marty May 22, 2013 at 01:54 pm
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Buzlightyear aka marty May 22, 2013 at 01:51 pm
Joan, let me presume you generally understand how the government works, what it can, and can't do,Read More and what freedom of the press really means. If so, theoretically, would you agree that if my post, is correct, would be very disturbing? Would you also agree that because of political leanings, most of the main stream media ignores, and/or twists the events I described to alter public opinion, and minimize it's impact? All of the statements in my original post are factual, out there in the public, in print, on T.V., and the internet. http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/politics/2013/05/irs-official-in-charge-during-tea-party-targeting-now-runs-health-care-office/ http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2013-01-30/fed-maintains-85-billion-pace-of-purchases-as-growth-pauses.html It is also called qe3 to infinity, If you want a deeper understanding of what lies ahead, then read this guy everyday. He has predicted, and laid out every move for years. http://www.jsmineset.com/2012/09/21/qe3-to-infinitythe-final-end-game/ http://www.forbes.com/sites/ralphbenko/2013/03/11/1-6-billion-rounds-of-ammo-for-homeland-security-its-time-for-a-national-conversation/ I believe the above group of links above is spells it out. Thanks for the challenge. ....
Bill C. May 23, 2013 at 09:16 am
Why was my comment deleted. I saw it go up and then it came down. Are comments being censored hereRead More now? What I said was where I agree people who worked and volunteered last Saturday should not be attacked but thanked for their efforts, the city council and members of city government know the history of this parade and that their conduct was shameful in allowing it to slip to the wayside and not attacking the issuing early enough to assure it would continue. It would be nice to hear Tom Adams or home town grown Larry Spicer speak to this issue.
rubberband May 22, 2013 at 12:51 pm
Yep, B Ulm.... I was there all day. People were working really hard from early a.m. to clean upRead More time. I noticed plenty of smiles and laughter, some quick no-nonsense problem solving, and some really rather creative ways to tackle the project at hand. It was smaller scale, there was no carnival (Did the Tilt a Whirl with dried puke REALLY mean that much to you folks?!) Look, the pancakes tasty, kids cute, dunk booth busy. These people did their best, and this is coming from me, an admitted Mr.grumpy pants. Danielle, since you seem keen on helping out per your post, and would volunteer if you knew where to go to do so, please sign up to be the dunkee next year. We'd love to have ya...I might be old but I have one helluva fast ball.
B Ulm May 21, 2013 at 09:06 pm
Wow - what an insulting, non-constructive post. You live in a city whose citizens banded together toRead More tax themselves to save it Foothill wilderness, raised funds to renovate its schools and to build a state of the art library. The fact that one one single event in the year didn't go the way you wanted made you ashamed to be a Monrovian suggests you need to seriously rethink your priorities in life. As the first response said, quit complaining and get involved. Its not very hard in this city to find out how to volunteer if you had given it a slight effort. And the volunteer groups like the one that put the event together are starving for help since tearing people down is a lot more popular these days than putting in hard work. You are the one who should be ashamed.
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rubberband May 20, 2013 at 07:38 am
Who was that face painter? She was really good with the kids, even the wiggly ones. She also wasRead More giving away little handmaid mermaids. Some of the stuff at the celebration was cool. I think next year the city council should be the dunkees for the dunk booth.
Mike Day May 17, 2013 at 09:56 pm
Thanks for the compliments. mor video to follow
Buzlightyear aka marty May 17, 2013 at 07:37 pm
Yeah, it's cute...... For now......
Ellen Zunino May 17, 2013 at 01:02 pm
Cool presentation. Many of us have had our own encounters and all of us have seen numerous photosRead More and videos so your creative approach freshened it up for us.
Dan Crandell May 16, 2013 at 09:28 pm
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